as the little things go

manners are a thing of the past. some people have just completely thrown etiquette to the wind. what is so hard about saying "thank you" or "please"? for example, if you borrow or use something of someone else's it's standard to let them know that you're appreciative of their generosity. this doesn't usually happen anymore though. people just get what they need and leave, no appreciation in sight. manners aren't just about "please" and "thank you". if someone has the decency to lend something to you, at least give them a high five or something. manners also concerns punctuality. if you're going to be late, let that person know. don't let said person hang in the balance as to when it's alright for you to do something. it's not fair and frankly, it's fucking rude. there are so many different forms of communication today that there really is no excuse for not giving a head's up of lateness. i could be doing plenty of other things other than waiting on people to come around. lateness is usually not even intentional, but it's a slap in the face and irritating nonetheless- especially if people are watching you wait and looking pathetic. i am all for spontaneity, but don't go changing plans last minute. that's also really annoying. the general public are so selfish sometimes. a lack of politeness really shows just how shallow and self absorbed a person is. a good example i can think of immediately is how someone will literally be yelling into their cell phone while on a train, in a waiting room, or in some other public and enclosed area. it's alright, have a conversation- but don't let everyone else in a fifteen foot radius know what's going on with you. i personally like to be polite to other people, even strangers. i usually get a good response and a big smile from whoever it is. when i see others smile, i smile. it's a good trade off in my book. i'll write a few things down that make me happy.

swimming in the ocean, seaweed free water, drying off in five minutes because the sun is that strong, straight up good music with no gimmicks involved, reconnecting with old friends that are truly genuine, experimenting with new recipes.